Sir, Master, Daddy...

Do you really know what that means? Like really know the meaning down to the core? When you have made the decision that the person you are talking to is worth your submission...then call him one of these. Using one of these titles shows your submission. You pass over power, control and trust. The biggest one is trust. you trust him not to hurt you. You trust him not to destroy you. You trust him not to abuse his power.

The second biggest thing is submission. If you don't fully trust the person to submit to him...then don't call him one of these titles. To completely submit takes balls and it a long journey. It's scary and uncomfortable at first. You don't know what daily, weekly and monthly tasks he comes up with. You don't know what is on their mind and what they will ask you to do next.

So again, if you can't completely submit? Don't call them Sir/Daddy or Master because all that it causes is confusion and irritation. Being clear matters the most in this lifestyle.