Looks are not of importance
- Drew A. Lennox
- Jan 16, 2019
- 1 min read
This probably has happened to every single person at least once in their life.
You’re out and about and you spot a couple that esthetically seems to be a miss-match. Your first thought? Wow, he or she can do better. Ask yourself, why do we think this way? Why do looks carry such an importance when in truth, they don’t matter for the most part. Sure, looks attract, that is true, but looks don’t keep you. I believe people pass so many chances and opportunities with people that may very well be a great match...all because they weren’t pleasing to the eye. If you give them a chance, get to know them on a deeper level, maybe starting as a friendship you will be surprised that you may just find a gem among rocks.
I've asked myself this question when I've seen couples out and about. They just don't seem like they'd match but then I watch them to try and see why they chose each other.
Looks aren't everything. It's how you're treated that matters. I used to go for all the hot guys, only to be treated like shit. I stopped doing that. I started opening myself up to more than just someone's hotness factor.
My Dom/husband and I met online and I was not attracted to him at all. We were friends for years and then all of a sudden I couldn't remember why I hadn't thought him attractive. Been married 7 years now and our love is so deep and our connection is amazing!
I didn't with my Husband. He was the opposite of what I was attracted to, but he treated me with respect and was a gentalmen. Which I had never experience even at such a young age. Now I just say there is someone out there for everyone.
I love this. And it is very true.
Thanks for this post!
Drew, that is so true. I know I have done the same thing. The saying “Never judge a book by it cover” is so true. Thank you for the reminder to think positively.